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« on: August 11, 2006, 06:42:00 pm »
If she ran out the door in midsentence, chances are you\'ll want to devote your energies elsewhere.  
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« Reply #1 on: August 11, 2006, 09:38:00 pm »
Yup. She\'s a psycho.  Give up, move on.
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« Reply #2 on: August 12, 2006, 06:18:00 am »
those are some strange girls.....anyway, I love getting email. But I love getting letters even more. Phone calls are alright, but emails don\'t have those long awkward silences, and you can be more confident and truthful when you write them. I think the girl that just ran out on you is pretty insecure and lost. I could be wrong, but from the way you\'ve described her-it just makes sense.
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« Reply #3 on: August 12, 2006, 12:52:00 pm »
exactly.

some things better left alone.

thanx for your help.
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« Reply #4 on: August 11, 2006, 04:10:00 pm »
a question for you.

from personal experience, i\'ve found that girls hate it when you communicate with them through email. however, what do you do when this is the only option? I mean, email is much more convenient - you can compose your thoughts, take your time, and you can always finish your sentences.

Case in point, there\'s a girl who I kind of know and we fell out with each other, and since then I\'ve tried emailing her a few times to apologise. No reply - totally ignored. then one day she just appears when I\'m out and starts asking me why I ignore her and never talk to her. I tell her that I don\'t ignore her and that I\'ve tried talking to her, and instead of finishing the conversation, she runs - literally - out the door, and I haven\'t seen her since.

what the hell do you make of that?
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« Reply #5 on: August 11, 2006, 04:18:00 pm »
Maybe she doesn\'t use that email address anymore?  Or hasn\'t checked it in a really, really long time? I don\'t see why she would accuse you of not talking to her if she read her email.

Email is never the only option unless you two live half a world away from each other. Just call her, say hi, she\'ll really appreciate it. Trust me...girls - well, most girls - like the personal touch, and usually that means the phone.

That\'s the only way to work out the problem. Just call her and invite her out to coffee or something to talk about the problem. One phone call won\'t kill ya, would it?

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« Reply #6 on: August 11, 2006, 04:23:00 pm »
two problems

1. she does read her email - I send all my mail with a return reciept which automatically informs me when it\'s been read
2. her parents despise me, so i have no way of calling her.

i get the impression that she wants to talk to me personally about something, and she wants to do it personally, i.e. \'you always ignoring me\' = you being impersonal and emailing me rather than finding me and talking it out face to face. But if this is the case, then what\'s with the running out the door mid-sentence?
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« Reply #7 on: August 11, 2006, 04:33:00 pm »
Ok......email her what you wrote on this thread. Well kinda. Like write that you want to call her, but you know that your calls aren\'t welcome in her household, so that is why you are emailing her. She does have your phone number right? Then ask her to call your number, if possible.

Also email her about meeting her at some time IRL, that way the ball is in her court. If she ignores that suggestion, then she\'s the one with the problem, and it\'s up to you whether you think she\'s worth pursuing any farther.

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« Reply #8 on: August 11, 2006, 04:40:00 pm »
still isn\'t going to work, I\'m afraid. when I emailed her, I gave her my phone number and told her to call me. she didn\'t. it\'s a catch 22 situation.
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« Reply #9 on: August 11, 2006, 04:44:00 pm »
I ought to explain a bit further - I want to talk to her, face to face, and it seems that she wants to talk to me. However, we got to that stage, and she just ran out of the door in midsentnence. Now it seems that there is no way of communicating. To use a classic line... \"was it something I said?\"
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