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« on: August 09, 2006, 06:36:00 pm »
how do i let him know i like him w/o comin out and sayin it!?!?!?
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« Reply #1 on: August 09, 2006, 07:32:00 pm »
It\'s easiest if you just kinda work your way up to telling him.  Guys don\'t like it when you play mind games with them.  Just be truthful when you\'re talking to him, and it\'ll go alot smoother.
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« Reply #2 on: August 09, 2006, 09:12:00 pm »
I\'m with Sweet-one
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« Reply #3 on: August 11, 2006, 04:02:00 pm »
Why don\'t you just get one o\' your friends to tell him you like him.  I dunno, just a thought..
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« Reply #4 on: August 11, 2006, 08:53:00 pm »
Man, I\'m glad you asked this question.  Partly because it pertains to a situation I\'m in.  My best advice to you is simply this:  give him compliments.  Like if he says something \"sweet\" or nice or whatever, just simply say \"Oh, that was so nice, thanks!\"  Or if he holds a door open for you, tell him thanks.  Maybe for a change (if you don\'t already do this), you call him up and you ask him to hang out.  What would it hurt?  Maybe step it up a little and try to get closer.  Like if your walking side by side, kinda stay close to him.  If you feel comfortable, try holding his hand.  If you are in a movie, try leaning a little toward him or even put your head on his shoulder.  I agree with sweet-one, but make sure it is the right moment.  Like if you are on the doorstep, and there is a slight pause, look him in the eyes, and say something like:  \"I hope this doesn\'t come as a shock, or I hope this doesn\'t change anything for the worse, but . . . . .  I really like you.\"  Be generous, and don\'t expect a huge reaction.  If he likes you, you will be able to tell by his reaction.  If he doesn\'t like you anymore than just friends, you\'ll be able to tell.  If you don\'t feel comfortable coming right out and telling him - once again, I\'m with sweet-one, us guys don\'t like mind games.  What would it hurt to call him up?  So this advice is coming from a guy that can only hope the girl he likes is similar to you - meaning she likes me and doesn\'t really know how to express it.  I guess it sounds like something I should, right?  I understand it\'s not easy, but it\'s gotta happen some time or another.  I hope these suggestions work out okay for you, and be sure to tell us what decision you choose!  Good luck and I hope I helped.
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« Reply #5 on: August 12, 2006, 12:33:00 am »
Well, although I agree that telling him straight out is as sure fure way of getting the message across, I would suggest that you start with something more subtle before blurting it out. Firstly, flirt with him. Some people say that it will be very confusing to the poor boy, but I think it wouldn\'t be of such an issue if you keep them consistent. Give out signs that you want him. Advantages of flirting before going all out is a) you won\'t scare him out of his wits when you tell him, and b) you get to judge his response before making your move.

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« Reply #6 on: August 12, 2006, 12:36:00 am »
Just flirt with him. Girls have it much easier when it comes to getting attraction across because they don\'t have to worry about physical boundaries. You don\'t hear much about woman getting sexual harrassment charges from men.  
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« Reply #7 on: August 12, 2006, 04:03:00 pm »
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« Reply #8 on: August 12, 2006, 04:24:00 pm »
heres the latest, on friday night i asked him if he wanted to get a drink with me and my friends, he nearly killed himslef to get over to me when i motioned for him, he said yes but never showed up!? whats the deal??  he apologized the next day but never gave me an excuse!  i work with him on monday night!!! help!!!
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« Reply #9 on: August 12, 2006, 07:46:00 pm »
You could ask him why he didn\'t show up, but don\'t press the issue.  If he comes of rude about it, give him space.  If the excuse is acceptable, then maybe say something about how you missed his presence and wish that you had the chance to see him, or something like that.  Maybe he\'ll get the idea.
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« Reply #10 on: August 13, 2006, 02:37:00 am »
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« Reply #11 on: August 13, 2006, 08:00:00 am »
Don\'t jump into conclusions. If you said he nearly killed himself trying to get to you then he must have a very good excuse for not turning up. Maybe he didn\'t tell you the reason because of personal reasons. Ask him if you want to but if he doesn\'t want to tell then just let it be. Sometimes things are better left unsaid. But then, my hunch is that he didn\'t stand you up but instead there was a very good reason behind it. Give him the benefit of the doubt. But if this thing repeats again , then I see no reason why you shouldn\'t just forget about him.