I\'m not sure about the opinion from the girls, but my own personal observation is that nice guys are very often taken advantage of. Girls treat nice guys like their friends, and it seems that they being girls, expect the guys to be there all the time for them. They seem to expect the guys to do favours for them, ie homework, carrying books, etc etc. While i agree it is a gentleman\'s role to do all these, but these actions should not be taken for granted. Fro my personal experience I too had learnt no t to be used too much . Imean, I still like to help girls as a courtesy, but don\'t let them use you.