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Jam

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« on: August 09, 2006, 09:29:00 pm »
I\'m kinda in the same situation as you, but a bit different circumstances.

A few threads back I saw someone give some advice about not talking to her too much online. Something to do with making her kinda annoyed with you, etc. I would probably say something like ya know I really miss having you around here and stuff. Just see what she says if you get a posititve reaction say something like well i was really attracted to you and all blah blah all that stuff. If she says oh.... okay whatever than just say something like ya you were pretty funny or something not giving anythin away. Seems like a not bad idea.

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Vypearl

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« Reply #1 on: August 10, 2006, 07:21:00 am »
Yup, long distance relationships are super-hard to aintain even if the love is strong. It seems to deplete as time goes by. I\'ve seem ALL my friends with LDRs break up eventually. sigh
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Biggs

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« Reply #2 on: August 10, 2006, 07:58:00 am »
Not all of the vypearl....my brother and his g/f have one...she goes away to college while he stays here and during the summer shes in upstate new york the entire time. He probably sees her maybe 5 or 6 full weeks out of the year, which isnt a lot of time if you ask me. They\'ve been dating for almost 2 years.
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Alissa

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« Reply #3 on: August 10, 2006, 08:18:00 am »
it would probably be better to just keep contact with her cause it is hard having a relationship with someone who lives far away.but ive known people who are in the same situation as yours,you know,and some of those relationships have turned out good.but it is hard cause you wont be able to see each other that often.  
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« Reply #4 on: August 09, 2006, 08:43:00 pm »
Alright, my friends cousin came up from Florida for the past week or so. She is so damn amazing. She\'s beautiful, smart, outgoing, everything you could want in a girl. She\'s seriosly the perefect girl for me.  We clicked right away. I made her laugh and stuff, eye contact, it was all good. Well she left today, and i feel pretty crappy. Just my luck, the perfect girl lives a thousand miles away. I\'m pretty sure she comes up here to Jersey alot, but not as often as i\'d like. I talk to her online alot and stuff and I wanted to know if i should tell her how i feel about her and how i should go about doin it cause shes probably the hottest girl i\'ve ever met (you know, so when she comes up next time...) Help me out!
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Jingerale124

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« Reply #5 on: August 10, 2006, 12:48:00 am »
Hey Man I live in Jersey, I\'m sort of in the same situation you\'re in, but reverse. I visit FL every two yrs or so & my friend down there feels like the perfect one for me. I can\'t give you too much advise cuz well I think we\'re pretty much in the same spot. She & I talk online, but barely once a week. I know she wants to stay friends for a long time so I guess my only advice to you is keep in touch & see what happens later on.
Even if you did find out she liked you, right now there isn\'t much you can do, right? If she\'s that special to you & if your meant to be then one day you\'ll have her. (I know it\'ll be hard.) But in the mean time try to have fun & keep your options open.
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« Reply #6 on: August 10, 2006, 02:30:00 am »
Just get on with life....
don\'t keep thinking bout her coz distance is an obstacle..
believe me!!!
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« Reply #7 on: August 10, 2006, 06:24:00 am »
Thanks for the help guys, i\'m gonna see what i can do with this. I know it would be hard, but if it was meant to be it was meant to be. Her cuz is my best friend so i\'ll definately see her more, just not that much.

Don\'t get me wrong.... i\'m not gonna sit around and wait for her while shes down their, its just that shes perfect but too damn far.
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Jim

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« Reply #8 on: August 10, 2006, 03:23:00 pm »

I have been in this situation recently. The only difference is that the girl I met I was involved with physically for 2 weeks. We met in another country and she lived on the West coast and I lived on the east coast. I thought we were perfect together.

Turned out wedecided no on long distance. This happens to all of us and it really hurts sometimes.  There are more girls out there. Just remember, take an opportunity when you see one. You will meet the one someday. At times it doesnt seem like it, but you must believe it.

No one ever said we would have strong feelings for only one person on this earth. You had strong feelings for this last girl and you WILL have strong if not stronger feelings for another girl.

G\'luck.

jimmie
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