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confusedgirl87

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« on: December 01, 2001, 12:37:00 pm »
oh god
please tell me that there is some other way. or maybe a chance that the condom could have blocked the semen?
oh god please tell me
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darketernal

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« Reply #1 on: December 01, 2001, 03:02:00 pm »
I suggest a morning after pill
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Odysseus

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« Reply #2 on: December 04, 2001, 12:06:00 am »
This is why I\'ve sworn to be a virgin til I\'m married
Morning after pill? Strange - never heard of it. [This message has been edited by Odysseus (edited 12-03-2001).]
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new lisa

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« Reply #3 on: December 04, 2001, 08:22:00 am »
The morning-after pill made a lot of headlines a few years back. The scientific name is (I think) RU-486 or something like that. It\'s been used in France for a while, but has been controversial in the US because many pro-life groups oppose it (it\'s been called \"the abortion pill\"). There are also people who feel that a pill that can \"take care of\" an impulsive decision just encourages casual and unsafe sex.
Out of curiosity, does anyone know how much this pill costs? I mean, is it priced too high for younger women to afford? I can\'t imagine they\'d be very cheap - too much opportunity to abuse them.
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nsx33

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« Reply #4 on: December 04, 2001, 02:19:00 pm »
Gosh.. I really hope you aren\'t SERIOUSLY considering abusing yourself for purposes of trying to induce a miscarriage.  That would not be a very good thing.
Anyway.... best of luck to you and in hoping it all works out correctly.
Richie
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« Reply #5 on: December 04, 2001, 03:29:00 pm »
next time when you make love tell him to be sure to hold the base of the condom while he gets his d*ck out of you... why ?? simply because the d*ck gets smaller after we cum, and that the condom is made to hold on the penis when it is in erection... but when you cum, you shrink a little bit later... lol
but he should have known that... you weren\'t aware of this ? i don\'t know why ppl sleep together before even being able to face ANY sort of consequences... and that includes having a baby...
next time before you make love, just think that whatever the method used, you have to be aware that there is always a tiny chance of getting the girl pregnant... except if you are unfertile, or that you practice abstinence...
phil
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trixie128

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« Reply #6 on: December 05, 2001, 06:57:00 pm »
Hay hon!The morning after pill is about $70 in TX from planned parenthood.You only have up to 72 hours to decide though.A doctor can prescribe something up to a week later, but after that, you\'re stuck.Most likely if your bf kicks you,you will just have a deformed and underdeveloped unwanted child.No judgement AT ALL!Just a warning.Good luck!Be strong!
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« Reply #7 on: December 05, 2001, 09:50:00 pm »
Have your boyfriend kick you? Come on take responsibilty for you actions. Its part of the risk in having sex if your not ready for it then you shouldnt be having sex in the first place. That has got to be the dumbest thing I have ever heard.
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Odysseus

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« Reply #8 on: December 05, 2001, 11:53:00 pm »
Just get an abortion and never have sex again. Simple.
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confusedgirl87

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« Reply #9 on: December 01, 2001, 11:11:00 am »
hey, we were having sex, and he came. they we pulled out of me and the condom wasnt on. I dont know whether is just got stuck and stayed in while he pulled out- or if he had cummed with it bunched up inside me. When i pulled it out it wasnt bunched up- So i think it just came off when he pulled out. the condom had most of the cum in it. But i am very very worried. Immediate response would be much appreciated. oh- and is one brand of pregnancy tests more trusted than another? thanks
--jen
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tara_2k

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« Reply #10 on: December 01, 2001, 12:22:00 pm »
O.K.  I am still a virgin, bu this a is a great exxample of why girls should be on the pill or be using a second form of birth control.  Condom will help protect you from
AIDS and stuff, but you also need something else to prevent babies.  I do not mean to be harsh, but even if she is not pregent, she has a aobut a week\'s worth of worry ahead of her.
I am not sure about which at home preg test are best, but chances are you will be so nervous that you could mess it up.  Or even if they are 95% right, but risk the 5%.
best thing is see a doc on Monday or get to a clinic and have a professional test.  it will be worth the extra time and money.  Speaking of, this guy should help you with that.  if not, dump his ass very fast.  This is his problem also.  If he wants nothing to do with it, then he should have nothing to do with you.
Maybe this is a good test of guys, but gives girls a chance to rethinkg what they are doing and what guys are putting into them.
You haveto ask yourself before having sex with tsex with a guy, do I want to ahve a kid with him?
Sorry if I sound like a bitch, I do not
want to judge you, but you have to judge your self.
tara
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confusedgirl87

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« Reply #11 on: December 01, 2001, 12:40:00 pm »
and what do you mean by a \"weeks worth of worry\"?
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new lisa

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« Reply #12 on: December 01, 2001, 12:53:00 pm »
You still have a smaller chance of being pregnant than if you had not used the condom at all, but it\'s hard to tell since you don\'t know exactly when the condom came off.
As far as the pregnancy tests, most are meant to be used a day after the day that you should have gotten your period - before that, you will likely get a negative reading anyway. And then you\'ll still be nervous and spend a ton of money on tests when you really just need to wait until it\'s time for your period.
A doctor can do a blood test much earlier than that and the test will be much more accurate than the drugstor urine ones, but I know my OB-GYN won\'t give the blood test unless other symptoms of preganacy are there. I missed a month (was trying to get pregnant) and had gotten negative readings on two drugstore tests, and he would not do the blood test.
Tara has some excellent advice regarding always using more than one form of birth control, just in case.
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tara_2k

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« Reply #13 on: December 02, 2001, 11:21:00 am »
What I mean by \"a week\'s worth of worry\"
is that you will use one or two at home
tests and if they are positive, then cames
the kicking yourself and getting the guts
to go to a real doc for the test and then
maybe explaning it all your parents if they
find out or you have to tell them.  Only
to find out that the real doctor\'s test
could have told you for dure that you were
or were not pregent instead of going there
a false postive with the at head test.
Get a real answer and real fast is all
I was trying to say.
tara
P.S.  Please tell us what happens next
if you need more advice or information.
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confusedgirl87

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« Reply #14 on: December 02, 2001, 03:52:00 pm »
well, i am just going to wait it out. I figured that at least having the condom block most of the semen is all the reassurence i need. and if i do happen to be pregnant- i have decided to either starve my self or ask my boyfriend to kick me in the stomach in order to have a miscarrage. (spelling?) anyways, i have enough problems in my life. and if i find a cheap enough abortion- i\'m there.

ps. i dont need any shit right now about how abortions are wrong. thanks.
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