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Sydney123456

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« on: June 09, 2006, 05:27:00 pm »
Ok...for alot of you, you\'re asking about your first kiss. Well...don\'t think you\'re the only one in the world with that prob!! So, what I\'ve done to eliminate some repeative questions...is post a NICE LONG POST that is well known through this part of the Romance Forums. This thread is for ADVICE ONLY! Any other questions can be posted, and answered there. ADVICE ONLY! If you choose to ignore my ADVICE ONLY signs, I will be forced to delete your post out of this thread. So please...don\'t make me be a bitch...just post advice for those who need advice. Thanks!

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When?
When you feel both you, and her, would be comfortable kissing. Also, do it in a private place...I mean, it\'s not romantic or ANYTHING like that when you kiss in front of alot of people. Just, wait til you guys are alone. It becomes more...personal.

Where?
Somewhere when you guys are alone...and, with the lights lower would be nice (not pitch black, but ya know what I mean?) But, the lighting isn\'t necessary...just make sure you guys are alone.

How?
Well...this is the longer part of my post...

First off...relax. If you don\'t relax...your screwed. A kiss isn\'t THAT big of a deal. So just, be calm. This is one of the KEY things to have a great first kiss.

EYES- Have them open until your lips meet. If you don\'t...hazards could arise. So, don\'t close your eyes until your lips meet. That doesn\'t mean have them WIDE open...just make sure you can see the destination of your lips.

BREATHING- Your nose is your key access to oxygen. Just...REMEMBER to breathe. You may get caught up in the kiss and forget to breathe. It happens...and this is where relaxing comes in. If you relax...then, breathing isn\'t that big of a deal.

TONGUE- When to put your tongue in, you ask? Well, as you\'re reading this...stick your tongue out. Then, wrap your lips around your tongue...and then without moving your lips, slip your tongue back into your mouth. This is the minimum your mouth can be open to slip your tongue in their mouth. Whenever it feels right, slip your tongue in their mouth. Also, when your tongue IS in their mouth...be creative with your mouth! Continous circles...are BORING! Do something creative with your tongue...draw letters, your name, their name, draw pictures...ANYTHING! Play with the other tongue...tickle the roof of their mouth...SOMETHING! The more creative...the better if feels on their side. Also...do NOT shove your tongue down their throat! I have experienced this...it feels like a GIANT EEL RAPING YOUR MOUTH!! Dear god...just DO NOT DO THAT!

LIPS- Courtesy of steffy-bee...I learned this. Right now, move your lips so it looks like you\'re saying the word \"LOVE\". That\'s how your lips are supposed to move while you\'re kissing (thanks steffy-bee!)

SALIVA- SWALLOW IT!! If you don\'t, it\'ll be on the outside of your lips...and it\'ll be like kissing a slobbery DOG! Yuck...and, your partner will be INCREDIBLY turned off by this. So, swallow the saliva...theirs, yours, anyone elses...SWALLOW IT!! lol

HANDS- It\'s just like a big hug. Hold them close to you. If you\'re a girl...you would just wrap your arms around his neck. Play with his hair then, or kind run your fingers around his neck/back...feels good. Guys...put one arm around her waist, and one around her upper waist...and just hold her close.

[Edited by Sydney123456 on 06-09-2001 at 02:30 PM]
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« Reply #1 on: June 10, 2006, 04:44:00 pm »
I just have another recommendation to add to your list of tips.

POSITIONING: To start out with, we\'re talking about your first french and you want to make it last a while. Make sure you aren\'t in a position where you are going to pull something while you\'re doing this (like your neck, that\'s a bad one). I also recommend that you don\'t have more than a foot (or 30 cm, for you metric people) of space between your bodies. The closer you are, the more intimate the kiss can be.
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« Reply #2 on: June 12, 2006, 09:18:00 pm »
I also have a recommendation to add:

Need To Spice Things Up?: Well if your kisses are getting a little bit boring. You should go for some of the different kinds of kisses instead of repeatedly making out, or just kissing. Try different flavored lip glosses for you girls. Also try using ice cubes for cold kisses, some people like to do that especially. Setting the mood for the kiss can help to make it even better too! Last but no least, try not to over-do-it with the kissing. Its supposed to be a special thing, you dont have to worry about making out every time you see each other. Lastly go with the flow and dont rush yourself!


BTW: This is NOT first kiss help...but, this is just help for anyone that would like to SPICE THINGS UP.

[Edited by Sydney123456 on 06-26-2001 at 10:32 AM]
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« Reply #3 on: June 14, 2006, 09:57:00 am »
Another thing: usually first french kiss doesn\'t last for long, you even don\'t need to breath in with your nose. At least my own and all my friends\' first kisses were short.

Now to Thatguy. You see there is such a great variety of kisses that the one who sais \'this way of kissing is wrong\' is wrong!
The thing is that some people like one way of kissing , others prefer sth else.
Don\'t worry much about it. You\'ll just come to it.
If you want you can somehow ask her what she likes more, but usually you don\'t need to.
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« Reply #4 on: June 15, 2006, 01:54:00 pm »
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« Reply #5 on: June 16, 2006, 02:24:00 pm »
other ideas for hands:

Girls-

*on his lower waist (a LOT of guys like this surprisingly)
*on the inside of his arms(does that make sense? like if his hands are on your waist then you put your hands on his arms/ elbows??)
 and then of course around the neck or back

Guys-

*hands in her hair
*on her cheek (it drives me wild when a guy runs his fingers over my cheeks and down my chin!)*sigh*
*on her ass (only if you\'re bold and both pretty comfortable- prolly not for first kiss.. I know this is a first kiss advice but o well)
*run your hands up and down her back
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« Reply #6 on: June 22, 2006, 11:55:00 am »

Take into consideration all the tips you read in this whole thread, but also remember that kissing is not something you become a pro in overnight.

Kissing gets better in time and with experience. So keep locking lips and see what kind of angles and styles turns you and your guy on the best.

Also, be creative.  
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« Reply #7 on: June 25, 2006, 08:30:00 pm »
Kissing isn\'t something that you can read about and be a pro at it.  You have to actualy do it.  It is something that you havee to learn, so to speak.  Don\'t worry so much about the first kiss.  If you do you will be so nervous that no one will want to kiss you.  Kissing kinda come natural.  
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« Reply #8 on: July 13, 2006, 09:40:00 am »
 WHAT EVER YOU DO, DO NOT GET COUGHT UP IN TECHNICALITIES!!!!!!  Just go with it.  The smoother the better.
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« Reply #9 on: July 13, 2006, 07:20:00 pm »
Last thing. See when you kiss, It\'s a sign of love between the two peoples. So try and ENJOY IT!

[Edited by Maximus on 07-13-2001 at 04:24 PM]
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« Reply #10 on: July 22, 2006, 05:36:00 pm »
Okay, I\'ve refrained from posting in this thread until now. Hahaha . Anyway, since this is the first kiss, you want to make it quite memorable. And how to do that? Well, the advice has been given. You need to relax. You need to make it smooth. But really, you also have to make sure that she will like it too. Because when you think back upon your most memorable times, you don\'t want to start thinking how she hated it and all. As well, try to kiss that person in a romantic place, or a romantic time. Try under the stars at night, in a park or a beach. That\'s quite common. Or after a wonderful night at her front porch. As long as you will be satisfied with the memory, it\'s all right.

One other thing, as I\'m a guy, here\'s one advice to the guys: Say something romantic. It will make her feel good. That\'s what you want. Say how beautiful she is (do not say she\'s hot). And maybe, say how close to heaven you feel at that moment. Well, you think of your own words to say.

Happy Kissin\'!

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« Reply #11 on: June 18, 2006, 08:44:00 am »
Something the playa just has to add...

Location:Same thing they say about real-estate applies to a first kiss.Or at least if you want it to be a tad bit romantic.Choose a nice place for your first kiss.A first kiss is usually very awkward when you have 15 people staring at you as you do it somewhere in public.Find a private place where you two are alone, with no one to bother any of you.Say if your first date is at the movies, which is a great place for a first kiss, it can initiate right there and then very easily.In a park.At your partner\'s house if you\'re both allowed to visit.In the pool(err sounds strange, but works out nicely).Be creative.Think of a private place...As long as you both have clothes on and aren\'t in a bed your first time together, it\'s all good
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« Reply #12 on: June 22, 2006, 05:38:00 am »
One word: ALTOIDS. \"Fight\" for it when circles and letters get boring.

But also, first french kisses are not usually that long, as other people have said. especially if it\'s both of the participants\' first times.
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« Reply #13 on: June 26, 2006, 07:36:00 pm »
Before my first kiss (i was sixteen too), i wasn\'t even thinking about it cuz i was....well....drunk!! and i passed out like two seconds after the fact. But i really really liked the guy and all i thought about was him.  So it just came naturally.  I used to be freaking about going on dates and stuff and scared the dude was gunna try summin with me.  But for ur first few kisses all u really gotta do is relax and it is easier than it sounds and u can\'t really do it wrong or anything just relax have let go!  I like icees before hand! i did that once at the movies where i work, the cherry icees taste good and make the guys tongue taste good too! i can\'t wait to try the ice thing or some candy! Good luck!
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« Reply #14 on: July 10, 2006, 04:11:00 pm »
Maybe, you wouldn\'t want to do this for a first kiss, or you might. But my friend liked this guy, and he never kissed before. And she gave him *lessons*(she was very experienced at kissing she knew what was good and bad). She like told him \"No, you\'re going too fast\" \"There is too much spit\" and stuff like that. They like made out for HOURS, trying to teach him how to do it just right. It was alot of fun for the both of them. So maybe you might want to start talking to a GOOD friend of the opposite sex and have them teach ya a couple things. I don\'t think it\'s a good way to lose your first kiss, but its a good way to learn how to get better at it.  
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