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If any of the brothers are reading this I would like some kind of feedback.  Heres the situation...
I have a friend, I met this fella through his gurlfriend who is a friend of my boys.  I met the gurl and her boyfriend through my boys.  I wouldnt consider us close, in fact I dont consider myself ultimate friends with anyone.  This is 2001.  I consider them associates with whom I spend time with because they are friends of my boys.  I often go to clubs with my boy and the girl.  Her boyfriend often is not there because he is working.
A few facts about the girl and her boyfriend.
*The gurl is very flirty, and assumes that most men want her.
*The gurl drinks a lot and becomes ten time as flirty
*She is bisexual and wants to cheat on her man the minute she finds a gurl who is willing.
*The guy she is with apparently is terrible in bed and she has not had decent sex in two years.

couple days ago me and my boy was at the gurl house, her boyfriend was again at work.  This is the type of gurl we always go to clubs with or movies with and her man is sometimes there and other times not.  She talks quite openly about her relationship with him, a few things she tells my boy and not me because he is better friends with her but I find out anyway because my boy is a blabbamouth.  We are sitting in her basement and she has had a few drinks.  Now I have always been of the opionion that alcohol can bring out extremities in anyone but often times it brings out the truth as well.  Well we got to talking about the truth and the truth is that sooner than later she is going to break up with her man (after he takes her to cancun).  This is not news to me...It should have happen a lot sooner of course i dont take anything women say at face value since I was 15.  
This gurl all of a sudden decides to sit on my lap and move around and start to whisper in my ear about a dream she had the night before.  This is all happpening with my boy sitting right next to me on the other couch.  She starts to describe the dream in explicit fashion and starts to put her lips real close to my face...and ear and is telling me the dream which is so lude i wont even divulge its contents.  Im a red blooded male and although I am quite taken aback by her actions...I am not overly surprised and I maintain my composure and listen to her ramblings.  Soon thereafter we all went home and I took a long cold shower.  
Question ? Am I Wrong for Enjoying that xperience and at the same time loosing even more respect I had for women.  I cant even look that fella in the face anymore (her boyfriend) I see him once in a while at the record store where he work and I feel sorry for the dude cuz he dun have a clue that his woman is doing this kind of stuff.  I feel guilty for not telling her to stop or jus get off me.  she is the type of female that will get crazy on a fella.
Should I be the one to inform this dude his gurl is foul...?  I personally of am the opinion that I dun have any business doing so.  I was in a tough position and alth I enjoyed it, I was Cornered and I couldnt do anything about it.  I didnt make any advances towards this gurl...she did because she one too many vodkas.  

The Next day This Gurl is completely different.  Me and my boy and her and her female friend go out to a club and she is all quiet.  She seem kinda aloof.  Im beginning to think this female worried about getting outted..or she is trying to punish her man for being so bad in the sack by trying to hit on one of his friends (me)...
Am I a true friend or just a brotha who coveted another mans gurl?

I think it would have been \"decent\" to tell that trick to get off of your lap with that madness.  Dude is your friend and you should not have had is girl all up in your lap. As far as telling him, I guess it depends on exactly how close you are to dude, but by not reacting to his girl grinding up on you, I would assume that you aren\'t that close, so I wouldn\'t say anything, and I would not hang around them anymore either. What is done in darkness always comes to light, so let that H O bust herself out. Dang, she is foul as hell.

sounds like you were on a verge of a Threesome  ...LOL
The girl is foul.  Boyfriend most likely already knows it…just keeping her around until they both get tired of each other or one of them winds up with a STD or her caught with her pants down.
If you do tell…he may not believe you and say that you want his girl., might start a fight.     If you don’t tell….no biggie because her fouliness will surely come out sooner or later.

He knows and is probably just as foul as she is. And I am with O. Why are you friends with poeple like that?

The best thing you can do is keep her in a distance. That doesn't mean you should end the friendship with her. Now you have understand the behavior  of her.