Hi! I have not posted for awhile. F/32/LAX.1. How important is physical attraction for a male/female pure sexual or love relationship to develop? It seems to be very important when we choose someone to sex up! I don\'t know about you, but I choose bedmates with my eyes and body. The reaction is strictly physical. Love can develop from friendship, but its a lot slower to get started, and I\'ve noticed my friends and coworkers don\'t seem to have the patience. So most of our relationships are sex based I think. 2. If only one party is attracted to the other can a sex or love relationship develop? Love can if the party that is attracted has enough nerve to keep getting rejected or maybe ignored for awhile. Sex is not likely to happen if a woman is not attracted to something about a man - his looks, his body, his money thang. Yes, women do trade the booty for car payments and trips and gold.3. If a friendship develops because one or both parties are not attracted to each other could either parties change their attitude later in their friendship and develop a pure sexual or love relationship? It happens. Usually love, not sex because they know too much about each other at that point. Once I know how jacked up my lovers are emotionally or mentally, I am usually turned off. The illusion is part of what makes it exciting.4. If one or both parties is not attracted to one another then how hard would it be to truly have or develop a friendship? They aren\'t looking at each other for sex, right? Then it shouldn\'t be difficult at all as long as they at least LIKE each other enough to talk and hang out sometimes.