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SarSar

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Do you believe online relationship ?
« on: April 05, 2006, 03:36:00 am »
Well, I think everyone should stop making generalisations and telling everyone about things they know nothing about!  I think you just all have to accept that people are different.  We are all on the internet here; does that mean we are all fat & ugly?!  Even all of you sportspeople?!  Well, I know that I\'m not, and people find me attractive IRL and such... But still, I met my boyfriend on the internet.  It wasn\'t through any kind of dating site; I don\'t believe in doing that at all.  That\'s not a good way to meet people, whether through a dating site or ads in the paper or whatever.  But if you get to know someone on the net as a friend, and through a common interest, and it turns into more, then I see nothing wrong with that.

I know that there must be a lot of strange people on the net too, but there are also strange people in clubs!  I sure don\'t wanna get to know any guys at clubs...Because I\'d know nothing about these guys, and they could turn out to be weirdos too!  I believe that people should actually get to know someone sane with actual interests that they share, and who they could have a future with, not just some random person they meet in a club!

A lot of us on the internet are just normal people!  And you\'re lucky if you find someone who you love on the net who does turn out to be normal, I guess   But that does happen.  For a lot of people, I think.  I\'ve met my boyfriend in person, and we talk on the phone every day, and I wouldn\'t say it\'s an internet relationship, at least not anymore.  We\'ve known each other for years now.  And I am really glad that I met him.  

But as for the guy who originally posted the message here... I wouldn\'t meet someone until you\'ve really gotten to know them well enough to know that they are normal, and that you like them.  It\'s not worth meeting strangers like that unless the relationship is really something special!  I don\'t know if it\'s such a good idea to get to know someone with the intention of having a relationship with them like that, but...I guess it could turn out to be what you both want.  Well, good luck anyway, but be careful!  
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« Reply #1 on: March 23, 2006, 09:00:00 pm »
Ah Wreslter, that uniform is so tight it cuts off the circulation to that pea you call a brain. So what I\'m a large person, who the hell cares.  Sure you could probably kick my ass in wrestling, but on a football field, your ass would be mine I was lineman all through highschool, we won state championships every single year. Loser? I think not. You\'ve no right to judge someone based on something they do. How would you feel if someone labeled you cause you wrestle eh? The same thing happened to people oh 30 years ago and still happens today, predjuduce, let me guess you don\'t like anyone who isn\'t a white american? By your philosophy, judging others by something they do, lets hate all doctors cause they save lives, lets hate the police cause they fight crime, lets hate teachers cause they help us learn and grow as people. You\'ve no clue what its like to be in an online relationship, you never will. Unless some mircale lets you experience it and you can understand it, you have no right on this planet to judge people by that, no right at all. If thats how your going to reply to someone\'s post asking openly for much needed advice and help, then I am sure an administrator wouldn\'t mind getting a hold of you, hopefully one of them will see this thread and see what kind of people really post here, you offer no sound advice to the guy that wants to meet his online gf\'s parents, if all you can do is mock him and me and others that are in online relationships, then you need to find another forum to hang around at, and not the Romance Forums.

And as a great old man once said, \"you may strike me down, doing so will only make me more powerful than you can ever imagine\"
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« Reply #2 on: March 23, 2006, 09:19:00 pm »
well meet them if u want to, like other people have said, her parents are just lookin out for her...obviously if u feel uncomfortable, say that u would like to hold off for a bit to see how things go, good luck
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« Reply #3 on: March 24, 2006, 06:46:00 am »
Oh jesus where to start! First of all, I don\'t play football, I played for one year, and got WOL (Western Ohio League) Defensive tackle of the year, and I quit, because it was too easy, we only ran like 4 miles a day, tops. Second, you were probably third string, and third I don\'t only like white americans, but I sure as hell hate fat people, we are the most obese nation in the world, and it\'s all cause you and other fatties are LAZY.
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« Reply #4 on: March 24, 2006, 03:11:00 pm »
Again you talk about something you don\'t know about.

First, I never played third string, I was a starter for all my highschool years.

As for our country, aside from the health issues that comes from obesity, there is nothing wrong with being quote unquote fat. Basing a judgement on someone cause of that shows your prejuduce and small mindedness. Hell if thats the case, lets make fun of people cause they have dark hair, or cause they have small ears, or they have big noses.

One day your going to realize your wrong on somethings, judging people by their age, creed, color, size or physical aspects being that.

And people wonder why the kids at Columbine and other highschools go on shooting rampages, its cause of people like you who judged them all through school cause how the talk, act or look just for your amusement.

Pshhh you call yourself a wrestler. Until you can climb into a REAL squared circle and give someone a stunner, or a jack knife power bomb, or take a steel chair to the head, your not a real wrestler.

An old man once said, \"the mind of the weak willed is often the easiest to control\" applies so much to you. Good day sir.
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« Reply #5 on: March 25, 2006, 02:51:00 am »
Mav you have some really good points as do you Wrestler, but i am going to have to take wrestler side.

One thing I like to point out your not the only jock in here wrestler WARNING!! ***shamless plug*** WARNING!!

My credentials: JV b-ball/Bsquad(pratice) Varsity Basketball/Varsity Baseball and Traveling Teams(b-ball,baseball).

Online dating is a poor way to meet, create and keep a relationship, James.

You can\'t get the same interaction and imtimacy, needed to make a relationship grow that 2 people would get in \"real\" relationship.

I and 98% of the population believe the same thing, that is why we view online dating as dating for \"losers\".  You may not like it mav, but people judge people and the general consensus of the world are people who pursue or are involved in online relationships, tend to be: A)Not Good looking or B)Poor Socially and not good looking.
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« Reply #6 on: March 25, 2006, 05:58:00 am »
Maybe so, sure its not the best way to meet people, and start relationships, but people still do it. Some of us do it cause we want to, some cause we have no other choice, some really by accident(having a good friend online and one day realzing you really care for them). Sure people look down apon it now, but not forever. Its like a fad type thing waiting to happen, like when people started becoming beatniks everyone hated it then a surge of them sprung up and nowadays is accepted to sit around coffee houses, drink mocachinno and listen to bad poetry. Same thing with online relationships. Does it really matter how you meet someone and if you label them losers, if they are happy, content and loved?
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« Reply #7 on: April 03, 2006, 11:30:00 am »
-Well I posted this before...but with all that old/new forum it got messed up so I\'m posting it again -
\"Meeting someone online is great! You get to know the person from the inside and then you discover the appearance. Meeting a person at a club is the reverse of that. You first discover the appearance and then you get to know the person from the inside. In both situations, you take the risk, so what\'s the difference!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I\'m sure that if you meet a person at a club, it doesn\'t say on his/hers forehead \"i\'m a psycho - stay away!!!\" You have to discover through \"trial and error.\" Other thing people worry about is honesty when meeting someone online. Well if you meet someone at a club or bar(just using an example) how do you know if they are honest? maybe they have another gf/bf? maybe they are 17 instead of 21 and you believe them cause they look old? and on and on. The advantage of online dating is that you discover the person from inside, and if someone is shy, through chats they tend to be more open!!! So no one should say that a person meeting someone online is a LoSeR, cause you can also be a LoSeR when meeting someone at a club, party, or in a bar and they screw you over. HaHa at least one knows, how the person they meet online is in terms of personality! Good Luck \"
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« Reply #8 on: February 22, 2012, 10:34:00 am »
Yup! Online relationships have been the rage for quite some time now. The proliferation of the dating websites, especially the free dating websites have facilitated the growth of internet relationships big time. These dating websites make it really easy for interested people to find dating partners and start dating. Online relations and marriage are generating from online singles dating sites. Singles dating online look for their dates through these dating sites. It is so popular in recent years where online single look for their soul mates on internet.




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