“You never get a second chance to make a good first impression”. That being said, we can’t afford to mess up the first date. We need to learn how to properly act and behave ourselves on the first dates. Here are ten tips about what you shouldn’t do on the first date.
1. Don’t get drunk!
If you are having some drinks over dinner, it might be difficult to keep track on how many you have had. If you aren’t sure whether you can control yourself or not after one too many drinks, then maybe its best you stick to non-alcoholic drinks.
2. Don’t check out other people!
Being a manizer or womanizer can really turn off your date and is actually quite rude. Keep your eyes only on your date.
3. Don’t talk about controversial topics!
Religion and politics have no place in a first date and it can really start things on a bad foundation. Try not to get emotional or even keep talking about your past relationships and exes. Keep the conversations positive and lighthearted.
4. Don’t bring unexpected company!
Unless if it is a group date, the third wheel can be left at home. Bringing a friend along can also make your date feel like the third wheel. It is a great way to make your date feel uncomfortable and also ruin chances on truly focusing on getting to know each other.
5. Don’t leave your phone on!
How annoying is it when an irritating ringtone blasts from your or their phone right in the middle of a deep conversation? Isn’t it even more annoying if your date actually answers the phone? Turn the phone off and never have the rescue friend give the famous “It’s an emergency, I have to go” phone call. If the date isn’t going well, just be honest.
6. Don’t dominate the conversation!
Talking too much, or even all the time, can be a big turn off, especially for men. Try to balance out the conversation and listen to what your date has to say. Be sure to have follow-up questions prepared to show interest in what your date is saying.
7. Don’t lie, be honest!
You can lose credibility easily and instantly by lying, whether on a date or in your profile. Be honest with everything you say and do and you will see much improvement in your dating life, self esteem, and relationships. At the same time, be sincere with your honesty.
8. Don’t be tardy!
Arriving late to a date can really start things off on a bad note. If you are running late, call them up and let them know when you will be there and that you are exciting for the date and to see them.
9. Don’t decide on behalf of your date!
A lot of men like to order for their dates, but this is a big turnoff for many women and also inconsiderate. The date can think for themselves and making decisions for them can come off as compulsive and controlling, which his a major turnoff.
10. Don’t forget table manners!
Keep your normal and proper table manners. If you act like you haven’t eaten in months, this could make your date wonder about your income and wealth.
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