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denise501

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« on: July 28, 2006, 08:32:00 pm »
About two months ago I started dating a guy that had been with a girl on and off for five years.  They had been broken up for several months so I fiqured it was fine.  I knew her and she said that it was fine she didn\'t care.  This guy and I hit it off so well.  We got along all the time and were together 24/7.  I liked him so much and he always knew just the words to say to me to make me feel like I was worth something.  Then one night I couldn\'t come over because I was out with some of my friends and later on I called him and he was so stressed or so I thought.  (He was just acting)  Later to find out that his ex was over there and ended up staying the night and spending the whole day together.  He couldn\'t face up to me but finally he did saying he liked me so much and just didn\'t know what to do.  He decided to quit dating and just be friends.  I said whatever it will never happen you will never call me again and I was right.  I still like him alot he was so good to me and his relationship with this other girl never works and I can\'t fiqure out why the keep trying.  Well tonight he called outta the blue. I don\'t know if him and this girl are still together or not but he was all asking me to come over and stuff.  I didn\'t go over there though.  Now I love him all over again I am so confuse and have no clue what to do. HELP!!

[Edited by denise501 on 07-30-2001 at 03:00 AM]
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AlfredB18

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« Reply #1 on: July 28, 2006, 10:00:00 pm »
Simple.

Get off your toosh and get out and meet other guys.

Who cares why the hell he is tryng to make things \"work\" with the ex, he screwed you over ROYALLY!!!  

Show some self worth and find a guy who can respect you for once.

Like we all know, if you rely on someone else to make you feel better about yourself, you have problems which should keep you from being in a relationship until those issues are worked out.

Oh yeah, he probably called because things aren\'t \"working\" out with the ex, but he knows you will drop to your knees for him.  


\"he liked me so much and just didn\'t know what to do.\"

I know, this is unfair, because I know how people tick...But, can you say: \"LIAR\"?  

I did.
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« Reply #2 on: July 29, 2006, 12:57:00 pm »
listen to AlfredB18.

Theres nothing else you can do, but to move on and find some other (and better) guy.

And the problem with the ex, well thats his problem not yours and you shouldnt get all the consequences of that relationship(?) with her.
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« Reply #3 on: July 29, 2006, 08:03:00 pm »
Well, to be honest, he used you. Not because he wanted to hurt you, but because he wanted to soothe himself.

On/Off relationships (especially those 5 year long ones) are something you don\'t want to get mixed up in. They are NEVER over their ex\'s (that\'s why they constantly get back together), but at the same time, they are unable to fix their problems, and that combination generates these on/off couples, and to be honest, you should try your best to avoid them like the plague. Doing otherwise is asking for trouble. I think what he needed all along was a friend.

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