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McLaren227

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« on: June 27, 2006, 12:45:00 pm »
I know what ya mean but not all crushes work that way.  iv had them and we went broke up and im empootional for a guy but id get over it in a week or to an we would be good friends but my ex ex g/f well i cant get over her even after going out with other girls.  I love her so much and some people you just cant get over till they hurt you.
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« Reply #1 on: July 02, 2006, 12:25:00 pm »
You could try lots of things. Spending time away from your crush, find a hobbie, hang out with friends. Just try and do things that will take your mind off your crush. Good luck! *hugs*
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« Reply #2 on: July 03, 2006, 10:42:00 pm »
Well, i gotta tell ya. How to get over crushes. You don\'t. You realize that you messed up, and the person will hate you. Hopefully that didnt happen to you. If I were you, I would try to get your mind off it really. Look at other people and admire what qualities you see in them.
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« Reply #3 on: July 04, 2006, 10:14:00 am »
Find a new crush? Worked for me (once).
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« Reply #4 on: July 17, 2006, 07:06:00 am »
Find yourself a new crush or a new boyfriend!
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« Reply #5 on: July 19, 2006, 01:52:00 pm »
Sometimes finding a new crush doesn\'t make you forget the other one. The best advice I can give you (and it\'s always worked for me) is to get out and do something different. I went on vacation (now not everybody can everytime they want to get over somebody) and got over my \"friends w/ benefits\" that suddenly turned into a crush. I met some guys at the beach and it kept my mind off him for a week...he\'s not as important as he was before. But anyway, go to a party, go swimming, go shopping...ANYTHING to distract you and keep your mind off him. And keep doing things until he\'s totally out of your thoughts. Then, you\'ll just forget him. It works, I promise. It\'s the best remedy.
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« Reply #6 on: July 19, 2006, 04:36:00 pm »
This probably sounds like a horrible thing to do but I will say it anyway.  Try to find a flaw in the person, and tell yourself that that flaw makes the person beneath you.  Use your self-esteem, and whatever bad feelings about the crush you can manufacture, to tell yourself that you are great and your crush is not and that therefore the person is not worthy of you.  Eventually you will look down on your crush so much that he or she will cease to be an object of your affections.
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« Reply #7 on: August 02, 2006, 07:46:00 am »
actually, i like tearspash\'s suggestion.

for me, it took extreme measures, lol. (i obsessed over this guy for 2 years, which is unusual for me, b/c i usually like a new guy every 2 weeks.) lemme just say that i had 2 boyfriends & several other crushs during this time, & yet i still liked him. honestly, i think my problem was that i thought i still had a chance with him. i finally told him in march how i felt, & almost immediantly after him telling me that he just wants to be friends, i got over him! it was amazing. & we really are just friends now.

just my advice.
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« Reply #8 on: June 24, 2006, 02:26:00 pm »
Hey everyone!
  please help me get over a crush...any ideas?
lizz xxx O.o
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« Reply #9 on: June 25, 2006, 03:08:00 pm »
The key to getting over a crush lies in the fact that plain crushes are meaningless, for all practical use. I have noticed from my past experience that if I spent some time away from a crush, not even lookng at her (like, if i went away for a week or whatever), she would plop right out of my mind. Of course, it\'s easy o re-ignite, but if you see how easily it just disappears, then you will put it into perspective, and see that it\'s not all that meaningful. I think I just talked around a circle .

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« Reply #10 on: July 08, 2006, 10:21:00 pm »
Try doing different activities.  Join clubs.  Play sports.  Meet new people.  Talk.  Laugh.  Have fun.  Immerse yourself in things you completely enjoy.  You\'ll forget your crush (and maybe have a laugh or two if you do remember).  I know that this is easier said than done, but it\'s what you have to do.  Remember, the best relationships are rooted in friendship.
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