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HockeyFighter

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I NEED BIG HELP!!!!
« on: August 04, 2006, 03:44:00 pm »
Tell her your problem. Tell her you really hate fighting and it makes you like her less and its very hard to be with somebody when your always fighting. Try to work on it. Its not worth leaving her.
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Kuky

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« Reply #1 on: August 04, 2006, 09:13:00 pm »
Constant fighting all of a sudden means that there is a problem with the relationship. I mean, why else would you fight about stupid things with the one person you\'re supposed to love more than others, which supposedly means that you tolerate her more than others. So, fighting about stupid things is really a sign that something irritates you in the relationship. So, you should spend some time pinpointing what it is, and then talk THAT over with her as well. If you somehow develop the urge to yell at her, and this is something that did not happen before, then it might be something thqt you have just never dealt with back then, and it hs grown into something that is now visible. So, if you want it to continue, then dig into it and talk it over and work it out. Running away for a few days and taking her back is just a cowardly, TEMPORARY cure.

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« Reply #2 on: August 04, 2006, 08:40:00 am »
I have been seeing this person for almost 2 years and we are engaged. I have broken help with many times and always feel bad and return. She has a 3.5 year old boy that does not know his true father but he calls me dad. We work at the same place togethe and we also live together. Some how I lost some of my love to her I think it might because we always fight about something stupid. I am a nice warm hearted person that hates to see people cry and I hate to yell at people. But some how I always yell at her. She always says stuff like what about Brandon (her son) and is this what u really want and when do u want me out. Sometimes I feel like I could scream. My friend says that I should just do it and go away for a couple of days.So i don\'t feel guilty and take her back again!Sometimes when we have fun I think it is really great to be w/her but the fighting is like 1 step forward and 2 back back.