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NotThatInnocent

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should i talk to my ex?
« on: August 11, 2006, 12:03:00 am »
I dumped my ex boyfriend a couple of days ago, and it wasn\'t really like we were even going out. But should I still talk to him, or do you think that would just like rub salt in the wound. Because from what I am told he REALLY liked me. And liked I\'m not interested in a relationship with him, but I like him as a friend. What should I do?
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Kuky

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« Reply #1 on: August 11, 2006, 07:30:00 am »
Well, if it wasn\'t like you were going out, then why did you have to dump him? OR, did you just reject him? If that\'s the case, then whether you want to talk to him or not is really up to you... If you aren\'t the best of friends, then his \"really liking you\" is a plain meaningless crush, which is get-overable much easier if there\'s no contact...

but on the other hand, suppose you were best friends or something similarily close, and there really is a reason for him really liking you, then only a bit of distance is required, because if you completely stop talking to him, then he will feel even worse, because not only did you reject him, but you ruined the friendship you had together. So, you have to come up with some balance, based on how close you feel that you are.

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« Reply #2 on: August 11, 2006, 10:13:00 am »
I think that you should tell him exactly where you stand and how you feel about him.  Then let it be up to him if he still wants to be friends with you.  It will be better for him to know exactly how you feel so he doesn\'t get his hopes up.
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